Leaders often get stuck in their heads

They worry about choices and tough talks. Here’s a simple way to break free.Switch your focus. Think of it like changing TV channels. Find something enjoyable to think about. This quick shift can free your mind from what’s bothering you.Here’s why this works.Ruminating is draining. It keeps you from moving forward. When you’re stuck in […]

You’re not lazy. You’re just tired of what no longer fits.

I used to think exhaustion was just part of being successful.Late nights.Early starts.Back-to-back calls.There was a strange pride in how depleted I felt.But what I’ve seen again and again—In myself, and in the clients I work with—Is that this kind of fatigue isn’t about capacity.It’s about alignment.You can be wildly capable and still feel drained.Not […]

One conversation can turn a small spark into a wildfire…

I was speaking with one of my Home Straight clients this morning. He’s building a project around getting men back into reading. It’s a simple, powerful idea that already carries a spark.But he’s been struggling to articulate it cleanly for this first pilot. So we explored what was really behind the mission.And as he did so, […]

You already know something’s off. Why are you pretending you don’t?

These moments in leadership. You’ve probably lived them. Something’s not quite right. You see a dip in someone’s performance. A tone that feels different. See a small behaviour shift you can sense even if it’s hard to name.Instead of turning toward it, you keep going. You tell yourself they are just having a rough week. You hope the issue will […]

Sometimes the body speaks before we do

There was a morning, not long ago, when I woke up already really tired. Not the usual kind of tired from too much on. It was heavier, lower. Like something in me had been trying to get my attention for a long time… and I’d been pretending not to hear it.I sat at my desk with […]

Let’s talk about confusion

I hear this a lot. “I’m confused.” “I just need more clarity.” “I’m not sure what to do next.”But when I dig deeper with clients, they’re rarely confused.They already know.They know what conversation they’re avoiding, truth they’re dodging or action they’re delaying.Confusion, more often than not, is protection.A label we use to avoid naming what we already see.Because […]

What’s on the other side of slowing down?

 A client told me recently, “I feel restless all the time. Like I need to be doing more.”So we explored what that restlessness really meant. Beneath it wasn’t a need for more action—but a need for less. A need for rest. For stillness.Most high-performers assume that if they slow down, they’ll lose momentum. That if […]

What if the real cost of your success… is your health?

A client said to me recently:“I’ve spent 25 years climbing. I didn’t realise how little energy I had left to actually enjoy the view.”That one hit hard.Because it’s easy to normalise the signs:•⁠ ⁠The sleep that never feels deep enough.•⁠ ⁠The constant low hum of stress in the background.•⁠ ⁠The quick temper with your kids, even though you […]

The Lie of “Having it all figured out”

A client once told me, “I’m waiting to feel 100% ready before I take the leap.”They were stuck in analysis paralysis—afraid to make the wrong move, overthinking every option, waiting for absolute certainty before they acted.But what I’ve seen time and time again is that clarity doesn’t come from waiting. It comes from moving.Alan (his […]

What if your success has quietly become a prison?

You’ve built something solid.The career.The credibility.The income.From the outside, it all looks like freedom.But on the inside… you feel trapped.Not miserable, exactly.But numb.Like you’re watching your life happen through glass.I’ve heard it said so many different ways:”I don’t hate my work… I just don’t love it anymore.””I feel guilty even admitting this — but is […]