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When success stops feeling like success

The wins keep coming but…

The feeling you expected from them has dried up.

Most people don't notice it at first.

You got the promotion and the celebration was real.

But the afterglow was briefer than expected.

The huge deal closed and yet the satisfaction faded fast.

You get the recognition.

It feels good for a day, maybe two at best.

Then you’re back to the next thing.

This isn't burnout, exactly.

It's something a bit more under the radar. 

I see it as a slow erosion that happens when success and meaning gradually drift apart.

Success, on its own, is extraordinarily good at keeping you busy.

For sure, it gives you the next target, the next milestone or the next measure to hit.

But what it doesn't do is ask whether any of it matters to you.

It really doesn’t care about you professionally.

It doesn’t consider you personally.

Or deeply, at all.

A client described it to me recently as running a race he'd forgotten he signed up for.

He was winning.

He just wasn't sure why anymore.

As I see it, that's really not a productivity problem.

It’s clearly a meaning problem.

The good news is that meaning isn't somewhere else.

It doesn't require tearing down what you've built or walking away from what you've created.

It requires asking a question you may well have been too busy to sit with:

What would make the next chapter of your life feel genuinely worth it?

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