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Are you about to spend six months interviewing for a feeling?

The feeling won't come from the job.

I've worked with a number of senior leaders who made exactly this move looking to feel differently about life right now.

New company, new title, new start.

Sure for a while, it genuinely works. The novelty does something. The sense of possibility stirs again.

But six or eight months in, the same quiet weight tends to return.

Because what they were running from wasn't the role or even the bad feeling.

It was a question they hadn't yet answered: what do I actually want from this chapter of my life?

A new role can bring stimulation, status, even real satisfaction. It can't answer that question for you.

I've seen men at the peak of their professional power take the bolder move, the bigger brief, the more prestigious stage; and still feel 'the thing' underneath.

That restless undercurrent. The sense of something unfinished.The real work isn't finding the next role. It's understanding what the restlessness is pointing toward.

Because when you know that, you stop running from the feeling. You start moving toward something.

That shift, from fleeing to choosing, is where your aliveness starts to return.

So if you are itching for a move, check in for a moment.

What is the restlessness in you actually trying to say?

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